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Why did you do that?

4/15/2017

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Can't figure out why you did that?The answer to what seems like uncontrollable actions.
Have you ever acted against your better judgment? Of course you have. We all have. Sometimes you do things that you later regret. And this keeps you from achieving the health you deserve.
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​If you have done any of these following things, then the rest of it is dedicated to you  ...
  • You hit snooze rather than waking up early to exercise before work.
  • You blow off your healthy eating plan for the convince of fast food
  • You start an exercise program only to drop out two weeks into it.
  • You try to be slick and not do what Joe tells you (You know who you are)
  • You don't give it your all during your workout
These regrettable actions prevent you from achieving your goals and keep you stuck. After helping countless people for almost 22 years, I have seen and heard it all.

Most of us are all too familiar with this frustrating paradox. It’s almost as if there are two sides inside of you, raging war on each other. Your sensible side versus your emotional side. What you want versus what you do. While, it is my firm belief that a disciplined mind can overcome anything, I present to you a tidbit for your logical mind.. 

A psychologist named Jonathan Haidt came up with a mental model that explains exactly why you do things that you wish you hadn’t – and how to take control to finally do the actions necessary to get what you really want. 

“The image I came up with for myself, as I marveled at my weakness [of willpower], was that I was a rider on the back of an elephant. I’m holding the reins in my hands, and by pulling one way or the other I can tell the elephant to turn, to stop, or to go. I can direct things, but only when the elephant doesn’t have desires of his own. When the elephant really wants to do something, I’m no match for him,” explained Haidt in his book, The Happiness Hypothesis. 

Human decision making is like a tiny rider on a massive elephant. The rider may think he’s in charge, but the elephant’s will always wins. The Elephant, The Rider, and The Path are a great framework for understanding yourself and what drives you. All human change depends on it. 

Here’s Haidt’s mental model for creating lasting change in greater detail… 

The Rider: is your rational and analytical side. The Rider is a visionary that has the ability to think long-term, to plan, and that is willing to make short-term sacrifices for long-term payoffs. The Rider loves to contemplate and analyze, has limited reserves of strength, suffers from paralysis by analysis, and relentlessly focuses on problems rather than solutions. Most crucially, the Rider is so small compared to the six-ton Elephant that anytime they disagree about which direction to go, the Rider will lose. 

The Elephant: is made up of your emotions and instincts. The Elephant prefers the comfort and security of a well-trodden path, even if a new path leads to a better outcome – this is why it’s so difficult to change your habits. The Elephant has enormous strengths: love and compassion and sympathy and loyalty. The Elephant is the one who gets things done. 

The Path: is your surrounding environment, the context in which the Rider and the Elephant operate. A rocky Path makes change hard, if not impossible, even when the Rider and the Elephant work together. 

There are three steps to lasting change:
  • Direct the Rider
  • Motivate the Elephant
  • Shape the Path
1) Direct the Rider: 

Change begins with a plan, and it’s the Rider who comes up with plans. Direct your Rider to analyze what’s right, on what works. When you’ve lost weight and made progress towards your fitness goals in the past what worked for you? Focus on these bright spots rather than on potential problems related to your desired change. Once you’ve come up with a plan, move on. It’s important to move quickly and to avoid getting bogged down with paralysis by analysis. 

2) Motivate the Elephant: 

In order for the plans of your Rider to succeed, your Elephant must feel emotionally invested in the outcome. Find an emotional connection that you feel deep down in relation to the goal. Don’t just think about why you want to achieve your goal – feel why you need to achieve your goal. 

3) Shape the Path: 

Make change easy. Reduce obstacles in your life, so that the new desired behavior is friction-less. Move the barriers between you and the actions that you want to take. Lay out your workout clothes the night before. Spend time in the morning to prep all of your healthy daily meals. Get someone to hold your feet to the fire of your goals and build a strong support system one person at a time.

Listen, If you want something get after it, if not don't. Fitness has a stigma like no other, most people do not truly want to be fit. They feel quilted into it. So, I suggest if your unhappy with your body, focus on health. The fitness will fall into place on its own when the body is healthy. 

​​There no one among us who can afford to dismiss health. To be clear, this statement is not about guilt but about truth. If we do not take care of something, be it things large or small, it will deteriorate, either swiftly or gradually, but make no mistake about it, it will vanish in the theoretical sands of time. I say these words not to motivate you into my building, I say them to motivate you to get health conscious. Gradually or Swiftly, move towards a healthier you.
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Your Ambassador for self betterment,
Trainer Joe​


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